--How much sugar do you want?
Dana was taken aback. He knows I don't drink tea with sugar. What's this for? Should I ask him? But what if we have another fight over this. It seems so insignificant. Maybe he just forgot. But how many gallons of tea do we have to drink together before he remembers? Why is he always so inattentive to details? Or should I just take a spoonful? But then I won't be able to drink it... Maybe I should ask him. Maybe this way he'll remember next time. But it's such a nice evening. Would be a pity to waste it on an argument. Oh, hell, I'll just take half a spoonful... or maybe I should ask him...