Printemps 1999 Spring

FORUMS

 

un bon parent/ a good parent

 

Julie M s - 07:47am Mar 11, 1999 (#1 of 4)

There seems to be a universal view of a good parent, although the french find it more important to always be there for their children. Most Americans today find themselves raising children while having a job, which makes quality time more important. Amid late night tv shows and dinner we find it important to teach the values and morals which are not necessarily instilled by our culture. Does french culture teach children discipline, morale, and work ethic?


Ronald A K - 01:36am Mar 12, 1999 (#2 of 4)

love

It seemed to me that the American response were much more concerned with the parents showing love and respect for their children than the French responses. Is this because the you simply assumed that love was part of being a good parent, or do you feel it more important that the parents educate their children?


Duangjai S - 01:24am Mar 15, 1999 (#3 of 4)

How do french parents educate their children?

It seems like the upbringing of a child is somewhat important in a way that the parents teach the child the value, the manner, etc. How do the french parents do this? If you could, please describe by giving a real example or two.


Dinh-Yen T T - 01:33am Mar 16, 1999 (#4 of 4)

I think Julie brought up a very good point. One of the oft-cited reasons for the crimes, violence and declining moral standards in american society is the decline in family coherence and marital bonds. With so many single or divorced parents or many families in which both parents are busy working, children need to look for other sources of guidance which can be church, peer groups, or other adults. Unfortunately there isn't such a thing as an ethics class in school, though I wish there were. So my question is the same as Julie's, which is how does French society teach ethics and values to its children when their parents can't do the job?