Letter of the month: November 2002
Subject: For your letters section
Date: Wed, 6 Nov 2002 16:47:38 +0200
I would just like to know if once one becomes a Mason, is one allowed
to leave the fraternity or not, as I understand there are certain
Date: Wed, 6 Nov 2002 10:59:15 -0500
Subject: Re: For your letters section
Dear Mr. Badderley,
Are you picturing some "mafia" kind of thing, where the person is a
member for life, entrusted with deadly secrets, and if they try to leave
they are killed? Do I really need to say that it's absolutely nothing
The "obligations" of Masonry have nothing to say about permission to
leave the fraternity. If someone became a Mason and then wished to
leave, he could either request a demit, a certificate saying he had left
his lodge in good standing, or he could simply stop paying his lodge
dues and would be suspended after a year or two.
Now at that point, is the person a Mason?
Well if he was suspended, he wouldn't be allowed to attend a lodge
meeting anywhere, and either way, of course, he wouldn't be
forced to attend a meeting. No one is ever forced to attend a
lodge meeting -- Masonry is entirely a voluntary organization.
I suppose even if the person were suspended, or even expelled, he
would always be considered an ex-Mason in some sense. His name would
always be in the lodge records that he had once been a member, for
example, just like with joining any organization. But there wouldn't be
anything he'd have to do about that. It would be sort of like being
from a particular place: you would always be from there, but
that doesn't mean you'd have to go back to it, or even think about
I just thought of something else you probably wanted to know in
regards your question: what about the promises made in his Obligations,
would they still be binding?
There are basically two kinds of promises the Mason makes in his
Obligations: he promises to act properly toward his fellow Masons, to
care about their welfare and treat them honestly. The other kind of
promise is to keep secret the "signs and tokens" -- the traditional
modes of recognition, between Masons. Regarding the first kind: once
the person leaves Masonry, how he treats other people is up to him. If
one of his lodge brothers had trusted him with personal details of his
life, of some difficulty he was having, and the ex-Mason decided to
blabber that around, it would be unfortunate, and kind of nasty.
Regarding the second kind of promise: as part of the obligations, the
Mason promises on his honor never to reveal those "signs and
tokens". And yet, they aren't really secret. They have been published
hundreds of times, by Masons or ex-Masons with no regard for their
In both of these examples, what could a lodge do? Nothing. What
would it do? Nothing. The promises a Mason makes in his obligation are
enforced by his own sense of respect and honor. If he quits the
fraternity, what he does about the promises he made -- that's entirely
Does that get at what you were wondering?
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Subject: RE: For your letters section
Date: Thu, 7 Nov 2002 09:33:15 +0200
Thanks, perfect answer. I was not picturing it as a Mafia at all.
It's just that through my readings it was nowhere mentioned about
leaving the fraternity.
To me logical sense says that if you are expelled or suspended from
the fraternity or lodge, you '...are no longer a Mason', but agree to
the fact that common and basic integrity still stands with regards to
oaths and information that was entrusted in you. This sort of trust
SHOULD always stand, whether one is or was a Mason.
Thanks for the information
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