John E. Kuconis <jkuconis@mit.edu>
Imagine you are the parent of a prospective MIT freshman. What will you look for that will convince you that MIT will provide your child with comprehensive preparation for the world of work and life.
If I were a parent of an incoming freshman, the "Whole Student" would be
very important. I would feel comfortable if I knew my child was on campus
in a controlled environment vs the fraternity house scene. The dormitory
environment with specific dining facilities would be a plus. Since MIT
revolves around academic departments, maybe students could be assigned to
dormitories by department. I think MIT does an exceptional job in educating
engineers and students who can solve problems. The residential system is a
very positive step in the whole student process. I was recently invited to
a faculty dinner at Harvard. Because the ROTC Detachment here at MIT
includes Harvard students, we are sometimes invited to participate in
Harvard functions. I was very impressed with the way in which Harvard
addresses the "Whole Student" issue. Their students live in a specific
hall (dormitory) with the dining facility in the same building. They have
formal functions there on a regular basis. Most of the Harvard cadets own a
formal tuxedo because of the number of times they use the outfit. I
graduated from the US Air Force Academy (USAFA) and while the system at
USAFA can not be compared to Harvard's, we did have meals with the same
group and numerous formal functions. The Harvard model may be worth
evaluating.
I think IAP presents opportunities. What about using some IAP time to
strengthen the program? One thought might be to structure a week or so
during IAP for mandatory seminars/courses. A program might be developed
which would force each class (freshman, sophomore etc.) to take a
citizenship elective or whatever during this time. The time from when
students finish classes in the fall until the spring term begins is almost 2
months. Taking just one week each year to develop the student is not too
much to ask. A four-year IAP finishing program could be very beneficial.
I think community service is an important part of citizenship. While many
students do contribute to the community, many give nothing. Instituting
some sort of service project to give back to the community is important.
IAP could be used for some finishing activities:
Manners
Dressing for the Occasion
Formal Functions
Etiquette
Social Interactions
Community Service
Ethical Behavior
Public Speaking (Expression)
Time Management
As a parent I would like a more structured HASS program to include a
mandatory writing course and a course on ethics/morality. I would also like
required formal functions whether it is a formal dinner or a ball/reception.
I would mandate certain athletic activities (golf, racquetball, swimming,
jogging, skiing, or sailing). I think students should be required to take
certain sports if for nothing else an introduction. Athletic activities
that will take you into middle age should be introduced. Field Hockey,
Soccer and Football, while great at this stage in a student's development,
have little carry over once you reach middle age. One of the major problems
with the US population today is lack of exercise.
I just had a freshman come in who has contracted Mono. He told me his
parents were concerned. When I queried him as to his schedule, he said he
routinely stays up until 400AM. He lives in a fraternity house. While he
is doing well academically, he is ruining himself physically. I am forcing
him to do a time management study and present me with a proposal on how he
is going to correct this. We also have another freshman with an academic
problem and has similar time management issues. I think the present system
of housing so many students off campus only fuels this problem. Hopefully,
some of my ideas may be useful.

