V. Michael Bove Jr. <vmb@media.mit.edu>
Identify the values you would like embedded in the new residential
system. For each value, identify 2-3 indicators which would tell us we are
"walking the talk."
It may not be as
politically correct to say this as in past years, but I think we do
our undergraduates no favor if we create a residential system that is
too protective and controlled. The effect of such a system would be
to postpone certain inevitable personal crises until students have
graduated, are working their first jobs, and are living in an
environment which won't be as supportive or understanding. Rather
than assuming that the Institute can through regulations or organized
programs completely prevent certain forms of unfortunate behavior
(sleep deprivation, poor nutrition, irresponsible use of alcohol,
incivility, et al.) let's instead consider how we can foster the
emergence of multiple levels of community that will first convey what
reasonable living is, and second will help out -- in a supportive rather
than condemnatory way -- when students exceed the limits anyway.
Foremost would be at the level of the students' immediate neighbors --
whose influence will count far more than housemasters or advisors or
official programs. Basically, the Institute doesn't have to be a
substitute parent if it can create a whole lot of sets of substitute
brothers and sisters. Student activities can help out at this level
as well. Then we have to work out higher-level ways of reaching those
students whose problems can't be handled at the the immediate
community level. Housemasters, advisors, and instructors/TAs with
regular contact with the students would be the ones to provide
encouragement to seek other resources.

