The one thing that personally bugs me the most about the SCA, is that a select group of individuals who have the most influence to decide how our game is played, is chosen based on physical prowess, and nothing else. The core of the SCA is built around this tradition. To change it would be to change the SCA into something completely different. It would no longer be the SCA.
That said, being someone who deals with minors all day long, I find it difficult when adults do not remember their manners. In a Society built around an ideal of honor, I am pleased when we can all remember this.