RAGGING MAKES ONE BOLD
A statement with inherent contradictions
Ragging is a menace prevalent in colleges in India and other Asian countries.
I am a proud member of Coalition to Uproot Ragging from Education and strictly oppose severe sexual and physical ragging in colleges. The present two articles, "Ragging makes one Bold, Part I and II" seek to destroy the myth that ragging makes the fresher bold.
Ragging makes one Bold, Part I
|I have several times been confronted with the argument that Ragging makes
one bold. So many times, have I been challenged on this, that I thought I would try to
analyze it and thus I present this article.
To pick up with examples, people tell me that in life we would face situations where our seniors in our professional life (other high end people) would stress us and ask for unwarranted things from us. Ragging prepares us for the same, so that we dont break down in such circumstances. Thus it makes us strong! It increases our resistance power.
Let us consider, what is BOLDness. I think boldness is actually taking a stand for ones principles and truth, even when the person knows that he could lose something for taking this stand or it can become dangerous for him. Acceptance of wrong done to you and not breaking-down is not in my conception BOLDness. It is revolting against the wrong done to you and not breaking down!
Boldness cannot be equated with 'sahansheelta', forbearance makes sense only with a feeling of forgiveness... I shall 'not act against evil' due to forgiveness (inspired from Leo Tolstoy) and not because I think that I dont have another option!!!
Boldness as instilled by ragging is a weak acceptance of fate by people who dont believe in themselves. Teaching such boldness is definitely wrong, you are converting people into non-believers. It is not true boldness which means to fight for ones cause, rights and principles.
Thus I dont believe that ragging makes one bold, it teaches us how to be exploited and mutely, non-resistively accept it. It is maybe the reason, why any one can come and spit on the face of us Indians AND we say its OK! It happens this way!!!!
Ragging makes one Bold, Part II
|In Part I of this article, I argued that tolerating wrong-doing to
oneself and not breaking-down in such circumstances is not boldness, but 'learning' to
accept exploitation. In this second part, I take-up the line where ragging victims are
asked to do funny/stupid/sexual/unsocial things and their performing the same is claimed
to make them bold.
During ragging session, one is often asked to dance in public, do funny things as to climb the tree, or say something stupid loudly in public/college/bus travel. I accept that this does help the person in defeating his shyness and introvert character (if it is the case with him/her). Infact I wont say I completely oppose this kind of ragging. However, this behaviour does attribute to challenge a person's fundamental freedom of choice, adds to destroying the individuality of the person and playing with his sensitivity. Thus there is a trade-off. It is debatable whether it is fair to strip one of his freedom of choice arguing that it is beneficial for him in the long run!
The usefulness of the above kind of ragging can be achieved in other ways of interaction like group discussions, debates, theatre, sports, social visits, etc. during the first year which can be made compulsary. My idea is that if this kind of ragging has some educational value, it should be made a part of the curriculum and done in a systematic way. We rather leave it to the senior who I feel is not driven by the educational experience he is providing to the junior, but for his want of deriving sadistic pleasure and revenge through a new 'murga'; we cannot be sure when he crosses the line and moves to the other side of the trade off!
Let us now consider ragging where a person is asked to do something stupid in public, but this time the ragging act has a sexual/physical/unethical attributes. This could be hurling nasty/sexual abusation to someone, holding your private parts in publics, making an indecent proposal to a girl, stripping oneself, etc. Yes, indeed this makes once courageous! But, is it the courage to do the wrong? Ragging tend to instill the courage in an individual that he shouldnt be afraid to be something which is socially unacceptable and wrong, since their consequence wont be much! One can appreciate that this boldness is actually 'gunda-gardi'. This is the courage which all unsocial elements like eve-teasers, bullies and even muderers possess. The courage is not derived from the truth of one's stand, but the non-existence of dire consequence. It is once again a perverted boldness/courage.
Thus, I strongly object to this kind of ragging not only due to its inprincipled and unethical nature, but because it instills the worst kind of courage into a person. [May I compare it here with the courage of the suicide bombers?] The other day, I heard a psychatrist say that wrong-doers are persons who lose sensitivity towards the self-respect of the other person and who are not afraid to do the wrong. This ragging indeed moulds freshers in this way, as is proved when the freshers become perpetrators in the second year!
Conclusively, I will jump too far to say that ragging has a inherent invisible role in increaing the crime in India! And, through this series of articles, I have been able to convince myself that severe sexual and physical ragging doesn't instill 'BOLDNESS AND COURAGE' into a person.
I request all to join the ongoing movement against ragging, become a part of CURE, www.noragging.com
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