Scenario 2: Dishes
Introduction : Deliver
an ultimatum : Talk to Messie
later : State feelings and interests You
chose: Say, “I spoke in anger before and didn’t mean to threaten
you. Please understand that the cleanliness of the kitchen matters a lot
to me, and to others, and please wash your dishes and throw out your leftovers.”
Messie says that she didn’t realize how you
felt and will try to clean up more, but she does need to keep leftovers
in the refrigerator. You offer to get some plastic wrap so that here
food will stay fresh in the refrigerator. Messie thanks you.
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