Master Aleksandr Ruslanovich and Lady Morwenna Westerne :
When Caitlin was getting her AoA, the scroll was absent. (I don't even remember why any more.) Queen Maurya, thinking quickly, took a ring from her own finger and gave it to Caitlin as a personal promissory. This wasn't a cheap ring -- it was real silver, with a lapus lazuli stone set into it. It was enormously touching, one of the best examples I've seen to date of true nobility on the throne. When Caitlin got her scroll and returned the ring to Maurya, she had a duplicate made as a personal keepsake, because it had made the day particularly special for her.
Lady Emmanuelle de Chenonceaux :
Mistress Gwendolyn of Middlemarch :
Lord Kali Harlansson of Gotland :
When I dislocated my shoulder at a tourney at Tufts in 1980, Aquel and Johanna drove me and Caryl to the HCHP clinic. They waited with us while the clinic took an unconscionably long time confirming it really was dislocated. They kept Caryl company while I was wheeled away and put to sleep for half an hour, and gave us a ride back to the Buttery. They didn't have to stay with us all that time - I obviously wasn't going to die, or anything - but they acted as though this was a perfectly natural way to spend the afternoon, and that there was absolutely nothing worth going back to the event for.
While I won't say this was the kindest thing I've *ever* seen done in the SCA, it set a high standard I've tried to live up to ever since.
Shi Hua Fu and Lady Yelizaveta Medvedeva :